Hi (his name),
I don’t hate you. There was a lot of pain that you caused me, and I appreciate your apology. I’m moving on and I’m so happy to be where I am in my life. Things are wonderful, and they worked out the way they were supposed to. I truly believe that.
I find it disrespectful to your new relationship and your new girlfriend to meet with you. It always hurt me when you met with (his ex’s name), and I don’t want to be a part of someone else’s cause of pain or anxiety.
It would be great if we could be friends, but given our history, I think it’s best for both of us to just move on.
I hope you are happy. I wish you the very best.
And thus, I opened some kind of new door. A door that closes the room behind me where MF lives.
Yours stepping in the right direction,